Ignore bad words

“Do not pay attention to every word people say, or you may hear your servant cursing you.” – Ecclesiastes 7:21

Paying attention to what others say about us is not always beneficial. Negative words, in any form, should not hold our focus. In today’s verse, the Bible reminds us not to let others’ opinions affect us. Each person has their own experience and personal relationship with God, which others cannot fully understand.

It is crucial to focus on our spiritual journey and connection with God rather than on criticism. This helps us cultivate authentic faith and remain true to our identity in Christ.

In Matthew 12:36, we are told that on the Day of Judgment, people will give an account for every careless word they have spoken. Those who utter negative words will be held accountable before God regardless of criticism or slander. Negative words from those driven by jealousy or hatred often reflect their insecurities or frustrations. It is essential not to let these words diminish our value, which is not determined by human opinions.

Each of us is responsible for our emotions and reactions. By choosing to adopt an attitude of compassion and understanding toward those who speak negatively, we strengthen our inner peace. Indeed, the best response to hatred or jealousy is often love and kindness.

Although we often enjoy receiving compliments, they can sometimes feel pride and steer us away from the humility we need. Our true worth does not come from compliments or criticisms but from our identity as children of God.

Proverbs 16:28  highlights that those who spread gossip cause division and create tensions: “A troublemaker plants seeds of strife; gossip separates the best of friends.” This verse reminds us of the impact our words can have on others and the importance of choosing to build bridges rather than walls.

I encourage you to detach yourself from the opinions of others, including compliments, and focus on your relationship with God. By developing this personal connection, you will find lasting peace and strength, independent of human judgments.

By focusing on your spiritual growth and personal development, you will strengthen your faith and thrive fully. Listen to what God says about you, for His voice is the most important, and His promises are eternal.